Life Lessons

Inspiration comes from interesting places. This post comes after flipping through this month's Real Simple (June 2010) magazine where the author paid tribute to her father's advice, even if sometimes grudgingly.

#1--Hold hands while you hash it out. It's impossible to scream at someone who's giving your hand a gentle squeeze. Good advice. I guess it's similar to the advice of our parents who would say never go to bed angry.

#2--Pay attention to anyone who wears a tool belt....then later you can care of the repair of whatever appliance yourself. I like being able to fix things. I hate having to pay for someone else to make house calls. I still have flashbacks about the Sears repairman laughing at me...

#3--or a uniform. Properly tip and thank those who serve you. Not only wait-staff (we have Beth to thank for those lessons) but hotel staff, mail carriers, sanitation workers, or others who might not be thanked ordinarily. It doesn't always have to be money. It can be a simple thank you. You might be the first to do so.

#4--You can never have enough baggies. They're miracle workers--easy to stash, and you can spot their contents at a glance. (Don't you wish you had been the one to invent Zip Loc bags?) 'Makes me think of my dad's plastivon napkins...also miracle workers. Could be used for napkins, wipes, in place of paper towels, wrung out and re-used.

#5--You can't go wrong with Clint. If you can't decide which movie to rent or watch, go with Clint Eastwood. Not a bad choice.

#6--Don't belitte the annual sack race. This refers to upholding family traditions as well as introducing new traditions. (#6 can be its own blog post...)

#7--For Pete's sake, stop worrying. Be a doer, not just a talker.

#8--Carry a hankie. Tissues disintegrate but not hankies. Restroom dryer on the fritz? Handkerchief! Want to wrap a cookie to go? Handkerchief! Dads and granddads always have hankies.

#9--No one's smarter than you. Asking questions makes you sound smart, so don't keep silent when you don't understand something.

#10--You will want kids. The author said, "My father always encouraged me to have a baby. I used to tell him that it wasn't for everyone, but he shot back, 'Iknow you, and you would love it.' True enough: Tom and I became parents recently, and that little girl is the joy of my life. I cannot wait to impart my own pearls of wisdom to her, such as the infinite uses for twist ties or the Importance of Being Honest (sound familiar?). And since she's a lot like me, she'll probably roll her eyes and grumble--and listen to every word."

The older we get, the less grumbling and eye-rolling we do.

I, too, have lofty goals

Two more days and Interim will be over. It is my goal to finish all grading as soon as possible so that won't be hanging over me.

I have set June aside to take care of some other "lofty" goals.

Take a few days to play with Hayes. He's got some new tricks I've got to see in person. Plus we've got things to do. He told me. It's a secret.

The neighborhood association will soon come knocking on our door if I don't do something to beautify our yard. Seriously.

De-hoard the garage. Plans are in the works. Really.

Work on the dreaded terminal degree. 'Got to. All that's left is the paperwork, so I've got to get on with it. Can you say job security?

Then. Sigh. Get ready to teach Summer II.

Take a few days to visit with Jackson and Lauren. Yes. She's coming to Sweet Home Alabama.

I will promise, though, that my lofty goals will also include time to read new books, visit with family and friends, sip some sweet tea or an occasional margarita, get a pedicure and maybe a massage or a facial and not let summer slip away without clocking some true down time.

I hope you'll do the same.

Is this the battle you want to fight?

One of my friends posted on Facebook that she won't buy "a drop of BP until it is all out of our Gulf." As I see it, this is a tragic accident. One that not only caused an oil spill in the Gulf but the loss of human life. But boycotting BP, as I see it, is not the solution. If we boycott BP we likely will give more of our oil business to foreign companies, most of whom despise the US.

Moreover, are we not being hypocritical? If we boycott BP, should we not also boycott electricity? There was a recent tragic mining accident in West Virginia---in fact, it was called the one of the worst, if not the worst in mining history. Coal is used to make electricity, so, ergo, we should boycott the use of electricity.

Did anyone boycott Exxon when the Valdez spilled oil due to a drunken pilot? Yet we continue to import oil that comes across the ocean in tankers.

Will we continue to depend on foreign oil and countries who loathe and despise our country and not drill on American soil, thereby becoming at least a little more independent?

I can't decide whether to stir this pot on Facebook, ignore it, or quit "peeping" at other people's thoughts of the day....Sigh. Not a good way to start my day.